17. A good friend

The concept of a good friend is always changing nowadays, however, there are unique characteristics and functions a good friend needs to have, because being a good friend is very important, you have to be with your friend in a bad situation, have a connection and allow your friends act the way they are.


The first and most important role consists in helping their friends and stay with them in a bad situation, in order to cheer he/she up, however a good friend has a mission on those situations, regardless of  your situation, whether you are happy or sad, your mission is to stay with him/her, because solving a problem is always easier in group than lonely. In addition, there is a quote that explain what I am saying: "A friend is someone who helps you when you're down, and if they can't, they lay down beside you and litsen" by Winnie the Poo. Therefore, we have that the most important role a good friend has is to always stay with you when you are down and spend time with you in order to cheer you up.


When you are with a good friend you feel some type of connection that surrounds you two, and this is also another important characteristic, however the fact about this concept is not something you can't choose; I compare this connection with love, you don't choose to fall in love with an specific person, it just happens. Due to this concept, it is so hard to find a connection like this, unless you have some sort of luck as I had. Luckily I have many friends with that connection. In addition, I want to describe this affinity, whereas when you meet a person it is normal to act as a formal person and don't act like yourself, when you meet a person with that affinity, you feel an amount of confidence and good vibes, also you feel that you can talk about everything with that person, even if you have been talking with him/she less than 10 minutes. Hence, this connection is an important characteristic in a good friend, nevertheless it depends on your luck and personality.


At least but not last a good friend allow his/her friends to be like they are, not placing any requirements or any type of personality, just giving freedom to behave like they do

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